Serving Divorce Papers Fresno? Divorce is stressful. Emotionally, mentally, and legally, it can feel like your whole world is in chaos. And for many people, the moment it becomes “real” is when you realize you have to serve your spouse or co-parent with divorce papers.
* For detailed instructions and the necessary forms to initiate a divorce case in Fresno County, please visit the Fresno Superior Court Family Law Division
Serving divorce papers may sound simple, but if it’s not done correctly, it can cause delays, cost extra money, and even create unnecessary stress with the person you’re trying to serve.
At Central Valley Process Servers, we’ve seen it all. Here are five of the most common mistakes people make when trying to serve divorce papers—and how you can avoid them.
1. Trying to Serve Papers Yourself
Many people think they can just hand divorce papers to their spouse. Unfortunately, California law doesn’t allow you to serve papers yourself. The court requires a neutral third party (over 18) who’s not involved in the case.
👉 The fix: Always use a registered process server. We know the rules, and our proof of service is valid in court, avoiding costly mistakes.
2. Using Family or Friends
It may feel easier (and cheaper) to ask a family member or friend to serve your spouse. But this often backfires. Tensions can rise, emotions get heated, and sometimes the person being served refuses to accept the papers—making the whole process messy and ineffective.
👉 The fix: A professional process server is trained to de-escalate conflict, keep things professional, and handle confrontations without drama.
3. Incorrect or Incomplete Paperwork
Every legal document has its own required proof of service form. If the wrong proof of service is filled out—or if it’s missing details—the judge can reject it, forcing you to start the process over.
👉 The fix: At Central Valley Process Servers, we double-check every detail, from names and addresses to the exact proof of service form needed. Accuracy is everything.
4. Not Knowing Where the Other Person Lives or Works
One of the biggest frustrations in serving divorce papers is when the other person is actively avoiding service or their location is unknown. Many people get stuck at this stage and don’t know what to do next.
👉 The fix: We specialize in skip tracing—finding individuals using databases, public records, and investigative techniques. Even if you only have a name, we can often track them down and complete service.
5. Delaying Service or Making Too Few Attempts
Some people put off serving divorce papers because they’re afraid of confrontation—or they assume one failed attempt means it can’t be done. This only delays your case and keeps you stuck.
👉 The fix: We make multiple attempts at different times of day, at home, work, or other known locations. Persistence and strategy are key to getting the job done.
Why Professional Service Matters

Divorce is already hard enough. You shouldn’t have to worry about whether your papers are being served properly. With Central Valley Process Servers, you’ll get:
- Direct communication with your server (no outsourcing or third parties).
- Three attempts per case—all handled by the same server for consistency.
- Real-time updates with photos and timestamps so you know exactly what’s happening.
- Professional handling of confrontations to keep the process calm and safe.
When you hire us, you’re not just paying for delivery—you’re investing in peace of mind that your case is moving forward.
📍 Serving Divorce Papers Fresno, Clovis, Madera, Visalia, and the entire Central Valley.
👉 If you need to serve divorce papers, don’t risk delays or mistakes. Contact Central Valley Process Servers today to get it done right.

